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Warning Signs of Abusive Relationships

- Makes “jokes” that shame, humiliate, demean or embarrass you, whether privately or around family and friends.

- Blames you when he or she mistreats you.

- Treats you like personal property.

- You don’t want people to know that you are not as “good” or “together” as people first thought.

- Is jealous or possessive toward you.

- Is violent and / or loses his or her temper quickly.

- Claims you are responsible for his or her emotional state.

- You leave and then return to your partner repeatedly.

- You have trouble ending the relationship, even though you know inside it’s the right thing to do.